WOMS Counselor’s Corner

Growth Mindset and Perseverance

This week, 6th-grade students are beginning to learn about growth mindset, the belief that with effort and perseverance, they can succeed! If you’ve never heard about growth mindset, Dr. Carol Dweck, a researcher at Stanford University, has identified two belief systems that impact student achievement and success–fixed mindset vs. growth mindset.

A fixed mindset is one where we believe that our children’s innate abilities, talents, and intelligence are fixed. They are either “good” or talented at something or they are not. With this mindset, a child may think to themselves, “I’m not good at this,” and feel that they do not have the ability to get any better at something.

A growth mindset is the belief that intelligence, skills, and talent are malleable, and they can change with effort, perseverance, and practice. For example, with this mindset, your child believes that they may struggle with math, but if they keep trying, they will get it. Having a growth mindset also means believing that it’s okay to struggle or fail because we learn from our mistakes.

While it’s difficult to watch our kids fail or struggle when they are working toward something, it’s important to help our kids understand that mistakes and failure are part of the learning process, just as it was when they were learning to walk or talk or ride a bike.

Here are links to videos we watched during our growth mindset lesson this week as well as other informative videos so that you can better understand what your child is learning, and I encourage you to visit with them about it at home.

How the Brain Learns

Growth Mindset Video 1

Growth Mindset Video 2

Growth Mindset Video 3

 

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Bullying Prevention Month

October is National Bullying Prevention Month, so during the first week of October, WOMS students participated in an awareness lesson about what bullying is and what it is not, how to respond to bullying, and why it’s important to stand up for yourself and others.  According to official and legally accepted definitions, bullying has to include the following elements: 

  • has to be hurtful (physically or emotionally);
  • has to be intentional (not an accident);
  • has to be repeated (not just a one-time situation);

Bullying also will include an imbalance of power, whether it’s physical, social, etc.

WOMS is taking bullying awareness and prevention seriously because we want our students to feel safe at school and beyond.  We also want to empower our students to stand up against bullying in an appropriate way.

If you would like more information about bullying and how to talk to your kids about bullying, go to the following link:

stopbullying.gov.

 

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Suicide Prevention Month

No one likes to talk about suicide, but it’s a subject that has to be addressed, especially when it comes to young children and teens.  According to current data, suicide is the leading cause of death among young people ages 15 to 24 in the United States.  In addition, according to Pew Research, “people 10-24 years old account for 14% of all suicides”  in the United States.  Therefore, even though it is a scary and uncomfortable topic, education and awareness are the keys to prevention.

September is Suicide Awareness Month and October is Mental Health Awareness Month.  The myths have been that if we don’t talk about suicide, they won’t think about it.  Unfortunately, they’re already talking about it with each other and learning about it on social media.  Take some time to educate yourself about the warning signs of self-harm and suicide, talk to your children, and please, don’t ever assume it cannot happen to your family.

See the resources below for further information, and if you ever have questions or concerns, please reach out.  If I do not have the answers, I will connect you with those who do.

 

 

Preventing Youth Suicide: Tips for Parents & Educators

Suicide Prevention

Texas Suicide Prevention | Know the Signs. Save a Life.

Suicide Prevention Resources for Parents, Educators, and Professionals

 

 

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Hello from the Counselor

Parents and Students,

I just want to introduce myself as your new WOMS counselor.  I’m Jody Velde, and I have been at White Oak Middle School as a teacher for the past twenty years.  However, a couple of years ago,  after witnessing the different issues our children are experiencing, I felt called to move into a new role and become a counselor so that I could help our students not only be more successful academically, but also socially and emotionally.  It has been a challenging adjustment, but I already love what I am doing and feel that I’m where I need to be.  I am looking forward to this school year and working with you in a new capacity.  Please feel free to reach out if you have any questions or concerns.  My email is [email protected], and my number is 903.291.2082.

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